Showing posts with label child. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child. Show all posts

Friday, August 31, 2012

Girls' day out

We had a girls' day out today, K and I. Her new passport was ready for collection and she had to be present so I decided to take her out for the day.

First, we made out way to ICA for the passport collection on a rainy morning where it would have been heavenly to just loll in bed. It was a pretty quick process so we didn't spend that much time there. It was more the traveling back and forth. And the parking wasn't so bad either. Jesus answers prayers!

Next, we went to the dentist at Hougang Mall for K to get her teeth checked. This was inspired by B's checkup just on Wed after he fell and chipped his front tooth. Dentist said it was not because of the fall but more because his front teeth were decaying slightly. :( All due to the boy only wanting to drink juice instead of water and constantly falling asleep while drinking milk. Sigh. Anyway, back to K.

Her first visit to the dentist was to a paedodontist. But she wasn't that successful with K that I decided we won't spend the money on a specialist but went to one that was recommended by my friend.  She was also very gentle with B so I made an appointment for K too. Oh yes, back to her first visit. She was very uncooperative and refused to let the dentist anywhere near her or look at her teeth. But that was back then.

Today, she is 4.5 years old and she knows that her younger brother had seen the dentist and not a single tear was shed. Pressure! Haha.

Here she was being examined.

Getting her teeth cleaned.



She was very pleased with herself and the visit cos she had loads of praise from the dentist and her over enthusiastic parents as well as the little balloon with water in it. A pink one!

After fretting for a while what we could do next since it had been raining the whole morning and hence, swimming was out of the question, we decided to go to the zoo.

She listed the animals that she wanted to see - stingray, otters, hippos, pandas (only arriving in one week's time), naked mole rats and butterflies.

The butterflies at the Fragile Forest.

The bats at the Fragile Rainforest.

At the naked mole rats exhibit.

Lunch at KFC where we saw many kids from My First Skool completely drenched in the water play area. Fully clothed!

Finally, a carousel ride after visiting the rabbits, goals and farabellas. At some point, she said that she wanted to sit on the horse but when I told her that I would not be able to sit on it with her, she chickened out. Never mind. A goal for the next visit perhaps? Or an elephant ride.


Sunday, August 26, 2012

Gala Dinner 2012


It's fund raising again for the new church building. This year, P and I decided we would get babysitters so we could go without the kids. Mostly because the organizers and venue didn't really encourage / wasn't conducive for children.

Went shopping for a dress for the function as well as the many upcoming weddings for the remaining half of the year. We tried to take some pics of ourselves but didn't manage to get a nice one. This was the best we could manage.

This was me and dear K. Can you tell she is expecting? She is due in December! Can't wait!
This is our CG - Walking on Water. Pity the lighting was so lousy.It dawned on me during this dinner that our circle of friends and the people we now hang out with in church are completely different. If this was 10 years ago, we would have formed a worship team table. Although it's nice to know that we have grown in some ways, making new friends and journeying through with new people, I sort of miss the old ones - Mich, Earl, Kwan, Eugene, Eileen, Co & Mike, Cheem, Joey, Lorraine, Ben & Lynn, Kev & Amy, Keong. The ones I grew up with during those Frankel days. Those were the crazy but happy days, lots of learning and stretching but fulfilling.This is PE. Her family is new to the CG. I'm so glad they decided to join us. K and B now have two little friends (exactly the same age!) to play and grow up with. We have started spending time with this family and our children seem to get along fabulously. Too fabulously sometimes that they are positively wild!Meanwhile, what was happening with B & K while we were having a fabulous time listening to the aunty killer Earl sing and watching hilarious Kenneth lip-sync to the songs?B was deposited at my parents' place. Since he started school, he has been spending less time there. But he was ok. He asked for me a few times and only started to cry about 10pm. I think he was quite exhausted by then. So that was quite a huge step for him, being away from us for the whole night.Kim was with Cheem and family. It was Charis' birthday and they were having a small family celebration. They were very happy to have K over as the two girls do play together quite well. There was one other cousin who came and according to Tania, he asked to sit next to K. And so did the birthday girl. I guess it's nice to have a different face around. 
Here is K having her dinner. 


This was after the party. She was cleaned up and waiting to be picked up.

What a milestone for K. She was the most clingy toddler ever! She has come such a long way to become this independent. We are so so proud of her. She was also on her best behavior that night and greeted everyone very enthusiastically when they arrived. :) More playmates will definitely follow after this.









Sunday, August 12, 2012

K swims!

This was K swimming on her own for a few metres this National Day weekend. Yay! Well done little girl! We are so proud of you. Incidentally, this is also the weekend she is trying to cycle without her training wheels for the first time.


Thursday, August 9, 2012

B's language development

How do you say "Banana"?


Somehow he can't say "banana" but he says "bantanana".

Before B went to school, the only Mandarin he knew was his name. And that was after drilling him so that he would know when his teacher was calling him. He was learnt two new phrases.

加油! 加油!


This is what his classmates would say during outdoors to encourage his friends to run.


不要


His favorite phrase these days when he doesn't want to do something.



Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Hide-and-Seek

Found them playing hide-and-seek while waiting to go to school. Love how B gets the idea that he needs to give K time to hide. Love how K accommodates B by hiding in the same spot for him to find her.


A big step for B - school!

B's first day of school. He was very excited that he could carry a similar schoolbag as K. He has watched her go to school and return from school for so long. It's finally his turn. Of course he's excited. 


All smiles.


A pose for the camera.

At this point, I think he felt a little apprehensive and asked to hold my hand.


I never realized this until these photos. He was pressing his tummy during the walk to school. I wonder if it's a sign that he's a little anxious.


Still smiling but still pressing on the tummy.


Health check before being allowed to enter.


Very excited when he got in. He saw lots of toys and lots of kids. 


He put his bag and water bottle into his cubby hole.


Oats for breakfast.


Trays of toys.


More toys. He said he was calling papa.


Some more toys. 


And even more toys. 


His first lesson. What are the "squeezable" items and what are not. And in that pitiful amount of (blue) water, they were also asked what could sink and float. These are 1 to 2 year olds! Would they understand that?


He was amused at his blue hands.


Outdoors time. He held hands with Sophie.


"Fly like a bird!" screamed the teacher. B just strolled at his own pace.


I showed him a dead lizard. He turned around to where the rest of his classmates were and said, "Children, come!" With no one responding, he went to the nearest girl, pulled her over and showed it to her.


This was B after outdoor when he was in a state of "Hungry, mummy!", "tired", "want drink now!" and "Carry!"


Lunch finally! Doesn't look very appetizing but he finished the whole plate of porridge.


And two pieces of apple.


Then it's more play time while the rest of his friends showered.


And then it was the end of the first day at school. Well done, B!


Day 2 - walking to school with K

His first Chinese lesson. It was to feed the dogs and cats.



Outdoor session was held indoors for a while due to the drizzle.
















His partner was Myo. He is the little brother of K's best friend.

More toys!


Day 3 - He knew exactly what to do with his bag and bottle.


A lesson that made use of household items to paint.


More play time.


Story time. He sat down after some persuasion from me to listen to the teacher but quickly lost interest.


Instead, he pushed this stack around going, "Choo choo!"


Lunch time again!


His first shower in school and no tears! Yay!


Day 4 - First unaccompanied day.

Brought him for his swimming lesson first and then dropped him off at school at about 10.20am. He cried and cried, not wanting to go in. :( I was depressed myself and had to go do some retail therapy to cheer myself up and stop myself from missing him. Then I received a call at 11.27am from the Chinese teacher. 

She said that he had cried non-stop since I dropped him off. She thinks he may have been tired out from swimming. He didn't want to eat much and she gave him a biscuit to pacify him. He held onto it, not wanting to eat it. And he had fallen asleep holding the biscuit. She wanted me to pick him up earlier.

When I went to fetch him, I gently woke him up so that he would still be able to take his afternoon nap. He was still trembling slightly from his earlier sobs. He was happy to be home again. I gave him the Ikea hotdog and he ate almost all of it!


See? My little boy was happy once more! He would periodically hug my arm and say, "Love you, mummy." Melt.


On this day, he would suddenly say, "Funny, mummy!" and cover his mouth while he laughed. Haha. So cute. Dunno where he learnt that from.


Day 5 - Second unaccompanied day

He cried upon separation. Wendy said that when he saw her, he cried very hard. Then said, "Aunty, find mummy!" She said ok and then sprinted off, unable to bear watching him cry anymore.

He cried intermittently throughout the day whenever he remembered but was sometimes distracted by the many toys. Here are his outdoor moments. The other boy who started the same day as him was still crying uncontrollably. I'm just thankful B was intermittent. It's so heartbreaking to see them cry.













I was so worried at this point in time that he had seen me and would start bawling but thankfully he didn't.



















Teacher was holding B's hand while walking back to the classroom. He was looking at everything!



"Want find mummy!" he said, not wanting to go back into the classroom and he cried again.


His treat after school - hash brown! "Yummy egg!" he said, rubbing his tummy.



At the end of two weeks, he was much better. Only cried when I dropped him off and for a while. He would still carry his bag and walk through the door by himself, even while crying. As soon as he got in, he would stop crying. Such a relief.

Week 3 Day 1
No crying. Just a mega pout and two tiny tears.

Today (Week 3 day 2), I dropped him off and he didn't cry! Yay. He was going to drag his bag into his classroom with his shoes on. So I quickly reminded him to remove his shoes and keep them. He actually listened and did everything without once showing any reluctance to go to school. Then he dragged his bag off to his cubby hole. Of course, I had to walk to the other door where I could still see him. Then he spotted me once again and started knocking on the door to come out to me. Yikes. And yes, he started crying.

Note to self, don't let him see self again after dropping him off unless it's time to pick him up.